December

This month's been a bit hectic. I feel like everything's been leading up to having some time off over Christmas/New Years and I haven't done a lot of anything other than work and stare longingly at the calendar.

I did play a tonne of Balatro. I didn't like it at first, but I love it now.

Tabitha got her portrait drawn by Chris Riddell.

I played Forza Horizon 4. Actually I played a lot of games this month. Got a good whack of Steam vouchers for Christmas and there's a great sale on.

Apple Intelligence met with expectations and I disabled it very quickly.

Instagram rolled out new share tracking, which forced me to up my game.

And I took a tonne of photos then posted them all at once because I'm lazy and figured posting them all like that hides their mediocrity. I think it works.

I've read/watched so many "gifts for the ... who has everything", and "last minute gifts for the ... in your life" this month, and I don't like it. Why are you trying to buy something for someone who has everything? And why are you stressing yourself out shopping last minute for things?

If that person you're thinking of would be hurt or upset that you didn't buy them something, I think there's a conversation to be had there. I'd be more upset if trying to buy me something caused someone stress. I would love to normalise giving gifts throughout the year, rather than waiting until the two times you're allowed to give gifts. Relationships aren't a list of checks and balances, and they ideally exist throughout the year. Or, at the very least, not at predefined points.

So I think if you see something you think someone would like, get it for them and give it to them now. Don't wait for birthdays and Christmas. Life's too short for these times that are supposed to be happy or relaxing, to be stressing people out instead.

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